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Lovehoney
Bondage Boutique Harness with Wrist and Thigh Restraints
$49.99
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Nat99 –
I really loved the idea of this and it is fun to use but there were a few key flaws in the design. To begin, it took me a little while to figure out how to put the harness on. It would be really helpful if there was a little image or something in the bag as a guide. I looked up an image online and went from there.
The velcro to adjust the harness is fiddly as the front piece folds over towards your body so you have to twist it then put it back. I have a 33″ under bust and I had to loosen the velcro front and back.
The shoulder straps were easy to adjust but I’m not sure why they are plastic clip adjustments and not velcro like the rest? I thought they were a good idea until we tried to use the harness with me on my back, at which point they dug into my shoulder blades and I had to move.
Due to the material and the location of the harness across my chest it irritated my nipples. On the wrist and thigh restraints there’s a small piece of foam to stop this irritation but nothing along the rest of the harness.
I wouldn’t mind the basic looking design if it was more practical and easy to use but it not only looks but feels cheap. I don’t think I’ll be using this again in the future but may invest in an upgraded version as I loved the concept.
Yummy_mummy_36 –
I was sent this item to test and review.
From dispatch is was quicker than expected and was delivered in discreet packaging.
Upon opening the package we found a harness in a clear bag, no fancy box. It took quite a while to work out how the harness was fitted, in the end from looking at others online we decided it would be over the head.
The thigh and wrist cuffs are made from a soft neoprene material and were very comfortable.
Once attached to the harness it kept the wearer in a very open position to be played with. Once done it was easy to remove the Velcro cuffs or just unhook them and leave them on if they were your choice.
Overall I think they could do with coming with at least a picture of someone wearing this to give you an idea of fitting, but it was good fun to try out and if light bondage is your thing it’s worth purchasing depending on its price.
Lexifer –
As always, I’ll start with the technical – this product comes with two thigh and two wrist restraints; all with safety clips that allow it to be attached to one of the four O-rings of the body harness (or just the the other restraints if you find that easier!).
The clips and D-rings that keep everything attached are surprisingly sturdy. Both my partner and I are decently strong and neither of us could brute-force our way out of the restraints… Colour us impressed!
However, the main feature of the harness is both the best and worst part for us. At the time of writing this review there were no pictures available for the product; which meant when it came time to put on the harness it honestly felt like we were wearing it all wrong. (I’m sure once pictures are added this will be easier for future users!)
But, we said the harness was also the best part of this product; and that it is! The benefit to attaching wrists and thighs to your body is the -oh so beautiful- position your now incapacitated plaything is left in. If they’re face up, they are all but helpless to lay there and watch it all unfold; or, if they’re facedown, you know full-well that their ass is up!
With four O-rings (2 at the front, two at the back) you’re able to play about with where the wrists are bound – in case you want to add an element of predicament or flexibility.
TLDR: I really enjoyed this restraint harness, its surprisingly strong and holds the wearer in a very vulnerable position. Perfect for power play!
Gareth –
As big fans of bondage this felt like a no brainer.
Does exactly what you want and expect it to, is incredibly sexy when it’s on, and is very restrictive.
If you’re a fan of the power dynamic of bondage then this was a lot of fun and would recommend.
It was a bit more complicated to work out how to put it on than we initially expected, which is no fault of the product as it works great, but it may be beneficial to include a set of instructions with it. It wasn’t very intuitive but we got there in the end.
Scorpius12 –
As always, my package arrived quickly and discretely – thanks Lovehoney! Inside, the harness comes packaged in a plain sealed cellophane bag.
The harness comes with 4 separate cuffs – 2 for wrists and 2 for ankles – which you can use separately or attach them to the harness via large metal ‘o’ rings.
The cuffs have Velcro fastening which makes them suitable for beginners and very easy to get in and out of.
Unfortunately, the material of this harness is neoprene, which gives it a chemical odour and also gives it a slightly scratchy, rough feel – so is not ideal for long-term wear.
Also, I found the harness was very hard to get into – either the straps seemed to be fitted round the wrong way, or the Velcro which fastened the harness across your front and the back seemed to be attached back to front. In the end, I settled for the Velcro being attached backwards as the easiest option. However, the issues that I had may just be a production error on my particular harness.
The only comfortable way to wear this harness is kneeling forwards or laying on the floor on my side in a kind on hog tie position – which is kind of the point! However, once everything was in place, I did not feel as restricted as I would have liked, and I could stand if I wanted to – although I was bent over slightly.
Overall, the harness has a great design, but for me, the fit and the scratchy material just made it uncomfortable to wear.
I really wanted to like this harness, but the awkwardness of fitting it, and uncomfortableness just let it down.
Didnotfit –
This harness is very small, and neither myself or my partner will be able to wear it. The side straps, and the adjustable straps between the rings are all very short with the “adjustable” strap gives you another inch or two of size around at most. I wear a 36, bra band size and have no hope of closing this harness around my ribs.
Super disappointing to open a new product that you can’t use as intended.
Clogger –
Item was purchased as an extra harness for us. Sadly it is not designed for the larger body (size 18) so would not fasten around the waist.
No padding on the cuffs so could become a little uncomfortable.
No instructions so a little tricky to work out where the bits went.
Verified-Customer –
Unusable, I’m only a size 10/12 and it’s way too small , no instructions after trying for 30 mins to figure it out see if it would fit we gave up and binned in !!
Lindylou –
Got this as a free gift. If I had paid for it I would have sent it back. Even adjusted to the maximum it would not fit around my body. I am a size 18 bordering size 16. It reminds me of the toddler reins that were used many years ago to attach a lead to keep a hold on wandering toddlers. The cuffs and thigh restraints will be useful to attach to other things we have. Unless you are really small don’t bother. It would have been useful to have the maximum and minimum chest measurements listed. On the plus side it feels strong but the Velcro joining the two bits together I think could be pulled apart quite easily in rough play.