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Lovehoney
Bondage Boutique Intimate Part Spreader
$29.99
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Quiet W. –
Must admit we’ve only used this a few times looks a bit strange but does do what it’s meant to. My wife’s a “typical” size 16/18 I found inserting it can be a bit trial and error as too can be the way we’ve bent the arms, so lots of thick lube required, once in it will stay in place, then I can move the arms around to spread her pierced labia fully apart, this gives me a great view stretched fully open with lots of smooth pink flesh to look and lick at! I have to say it’s the first time I have actually seen her clit poking out! so use with the light on, or use a torch so you(us men) can fully enjoy the view.Get a mirror so the girls can see what it looks like too! I can say she really enjoyed me licking her fully exposed parts, it makes it much easier as I don’t need to hold anything, leaves my fingers free to rub her g spot or use them in her bum, thought she was going to crush my head when she came with my tongue on her exposed clit. It doesn’t open her vagina up too much but it may do more so if you’re on the thinner side, but you can still see the nice folds inside etc, I found it was easy to put my penis through it having sex but found it would get pulled out in the process maybe we’ve not found the right shape? It did cross my mind that if you straighten it out it may be able to be used as a rather kinky urethral sounding rod, perhaps?
Naughtytoylover –
This has to be one of my more outrageous purchases. My partner was horrified when I pulled it out! She soon changed her tune. As others have said you do need to have a little fun with it to find the right angles and bends to get it just right but once you do the view is amazing. Not only is the view incredible for me it gives great access to her clit for oral or playing. She could really feel it rubbing her g-spot as she squirmed. Needs lots of lube to get it and a sideways and turn motion helps. I would highly recommend this toy, we have used it almost every session since we bought it!
Emems –
I’ve always wanted to try a toy like this but have never had the opportunity. Now I have a new partner who is just as adventurous as I am, I thought I would bite the bullet and give it a go! At first glance I was a little put off by the large size of the thing, as well as intimidated by its slightly clinical look. However as soon as I felt how smooth it is I couldn’t wait to give it a try. I have only used it on my own so far and not with my partner, but I do find it really great – especially if I am in front of a mirror and can see everything that’s happening down there. Spread to the correct width it makes me feel full as well as deliciously exposed, and when tilted at just the right angle it does hit my g spot which is always a bonus! I would say that this is great for beginners, easy to use and feels amazing. Would highly recommend, can’t wait to use it with my partner!
Icefyre –
This toy is absolutely great for oral. It opens up the labia and exposes the clit, so going down on her becomes easier and much more pleasurable! It is also extremely sexy to see everything spread. Definitively very inviting. It also work really well combined with a magic wand, because the labia don’t get in the way and the genitals get wonderfully exposed for stimulation. Definitely a great product. The only downside is the packaging. Contrary to other products lovehoney sells, this one is anything but elegant. However, if packaging is the main downside of a product, then you should probably buy it.
Raymonds L. –
This was part of my last order did not know what to expect as it is a new concept for us to try. Well after a little struggle fitting it my partner was just so amazed by what he could reach without having to spread my parts his self he loved it and has to use it each time now as it says itgives him so much pleasure to see everything exposed and he says when he finally entered me the feeling from tthe ribbed texture against his penis was tremendous. As for me the feeling of being so exposed was fantastic and the vibrations on my intimate parts while my partner was inside of me was great so a definate hit with me and my partner
John C. –
Honestly, it sounded fun but I didn’t hold out hope, it just didn’t look like it’d work. I insisted to my partner she can chuck it in the bin within seconds, no probs. Wow. It really works. Really really works. She’s tiny so once in nothing else will fit, but that’s no fault of the toy. Oral has improves greatly, I didn’t think it possible. This is no gimmick product.
Chase84 –
First of all, not a fan of the packaging, anything with naked women on the front screams cheap and tacky…. but I don’t store my toys in their boxes so its not that important. The spreader feels like a quality toy with a generous layer of lovely silicon, it’s easily adjustable to suit any size and easily inserted once you’ve found the right set up to suit you, although I do end up pinching myself trying to grab the ends to remove it. I love the feeling of being open and it makes oral so much easier for my partner, but we did have to remove it for sex as it was uncomfortable for him. I also tried wearing this while walking around the house and it was amazing, the arms closed around my clit like a loose clamp and rubbed against it with every step (so thats one way to get your step count up) The only g spot stimulation I got from this was when I was walking up the stairs, didn’t really feel much internally other then that. But you could also use it to give your kegels a quick work out. I thought I’d given this a thorough clean running my hands and soap over it but once dry it obviously still needed a wash so I recommend a soft brush or flannel for the ridges.
Ts M. –
I ordered the G-Spot intimate part spreader on a whim hoping to enhance our bondage play. It arrived with the usual shipping perfection that we have learned to expect from LH, promptly and in discrete packaging Not really knowing what to expect, I was initially disappointed when I took it out of the package as it looks like a fancy rubber pipe cleaner, but that turned out to be a mistaken impression as this baby does exactly what it advertises. As with most purchases this was a surprise to my OH, and when I lubed her up while blindfolded and exposed and slid this inside she was intrigued to say the least. Then when I started to stimulate her inner regions with a small vibe and my tongue, she got very excited and swollen with juices. The best part was later during anal intercourse, she let loose with wave after wave of squirting a definite first during intercourse. Have always been able to stimulate her to get there with my hand, but never has it occurred spontaneously during sex like that. Cannot wait to try
Forever_his –
I happened across this product whilst reading through the forum posts. I’d never seen or heard of something like this before and was intrigued to try it out. I was not disappointed. It’s firm with a softer outside and didn’t cause any discomfort or feel odd when in. I read the instructions and after a little squeeze and bend into shape, a fair amount of lube, it was straight in and fit well. I had my husband put this in whilst I was wearing lingerie and the effect on both of us was outstanding. For him the visual of me being completely spread open was amazing and the feel of foreplay with this in was honestly another level. I’ve always enjoyed the idea of being spread and stretched but nervous to give it a try. This was spot on for both of those feelings. I’ve never been a G spot girl but this changed that! I’d recommend this to anyone. I’d say spending that extra few minutes to bend it into the perfect shape is so worth it. I can’t wait to get this out for a play again
Steph44 –
I brought this as loved the feel of been spread wide open and expossed. It felt soft to touch, it needed to be adjusted a little to keep my pussy lips open and needed a little bit of lube. When in it felt so nice and full and left my other half hands free to explore, My other half loved the look of how it spread me wide.
Sharon –
Arrived whilst I was on a conference call – had to wait until lunch break to try it out – OMG – easy to insert and position the arms – used with my wand – OMG – it was fantastic – multiple orgasms later, I was back on the call – fortunately not on video as was a little flushed with a big grin on my face! Can’t wait for Hubby to get home!
Boy T. –
This wonderful little item arrived promptly as always in discreet packaging. My wife and I were keen to try it out as we have previously experimented with a speculum as my wife likes the feel of being spread open. The speculum doesn’t allow much room for other items to be inserted so we were hoping this spreader would allow for more experimentation. The product itself is made from nice feeling silicone and feels safe and sturdy. It is also easy to clean which is a bonus, even the ridges are good as new after a quick wash with anti bacterial spray. The loop that goes into the vagina is quite large so it is best to add plenty of lube before insertion. I also had to rotate before putting it inside. Once in it stays in place very well and it is simple to spread the device to open up access. My wife instantly found it very pleasurable and it made every activity more exciting for her. We added several different sized toys and even my penis and she found this toy made everything a lot more exciting. Unlike some of the other reviewers I didn’t enjoy the sensation of this product rubbing against me during penetration, but it wasn’t overly uncomfortable and the sensation was worth it for the expression of pleasure on my wives face. We don’t love the colour of the product, and would have preferred something clear, but it is so good at what it does that it is a small issue. The wire inside is not as strong as it could be, so we found that we were only able to open the vagina a certain amount and would have liked to have gone slightly wider, but it provided a lot of pleasure so all in all we would highly recommend.
Mr&Amp;Mrs R. –
Going down on MrsLabRat is certainly one of my favourite bedroom activities but is not without it’s risks & problems. First there’s the spreading of the labia to get access to the good stuff. Then there’s the risk of being squeezed and suffocated, and the general hanging on for dear life as things reach a peak. Having two pairs of hands would be ideal, but the next best option is the G-Spot Stimulating Intimate Part Spreader !The spreader arrives in un-bent form and requires some careful bending to get it into exactly the right configuration, but perseverance pays dividends. Once bent into shape, lube up with some water based lube and slowly insert into the vagina. Nestle the external arms against the labia to give a gentle spread.Not only does this look super hot when in place, but now with hand free access to the goodies, your hands are free to hold her legs open and hang on if she gets all jumpy when she orgasms.The spreader can also be used during penetrative sex to stimulate the g-spot, but this requires some bending tweaks. The internal part needs to have an upward bend towards the upper vaginal wall. The penis then has to slide between the arms and then under the internal “arch”. How well this works for others will depend how big he is and how tight she is. For us it just about worked and she was so tight I could feel every twitch of her orgasm.
Verified-Customer –
I introduced this to my lover last weekend as a possibility of something new to try out. Fast forward to this weekend & during our intimate morning lie-in, she tells me she would like to try it out. It was really easy to insert and simply popped in after lubing it up a bit. It looked amazing when inside her and really showed off her gorgeous anatomy. At first I used it as a little toy, gently rocking it back and forth. She then demanded that I enter her and I did just that. She was moaning with pleasure right from the start & although I could feel it inside her, it felt comfortable enough to thrust with vigor. Perhaps too much vigor, as it transferred on to my cock a few times to endless laughter. I re-inserted and with a little adjustment to it and to my humping style, carried on merrily. My girlfriend is quite used to squirting orgasms and this happens quite often, usually with clitoral stimulation, but this toy gave her a really unusual squirt. One that was not accompanied by an orgasm as she told me later, but rather a hot internal squirt that engulfed my cock with it’s hot flush juices. Needless to say we can’t wait to try this again and experiment with the G-spot. I asked later what she thought of it and was happy to hear she is enthusiastic about it as I am. Try it out for yourselves & explore it’s virtues.
Hannnah –
My partner and I took a little bit of time to figure out things since it was our first time using one, and once we did, it was well worth it. It’s been fun and easy to use!
Verified-Customer –
So much fun, lovely to see everything and expose everything. Comfortable to leave in during penetration.
gevvin –
This labia spreader is a rather unusual sex toy.
We had to take a little time to understand how to use it properly. After a while, we got the hang of it. The upper curve of the spreader stimulated my G-spot with pressure and I enjoyed lying so openly in front of my husband.
According to him, the sight was very arousing. At the beginning, he simply stimulated my clitoris, this combination felt really good.
Then he penetrated me in addition to the spreader, the feeling was incredible and didn’t just give me an orgasm.
It’s a really great toy, but you have to get used to it first.
JGood –
Although labeled a BDSM toy and quite rightly so with so many possibilities to use it to excite your partner with; it primarily gives you an extra hand when it comes to exciting and delving deeply into the pleasure of your partners body.
It’s also a sexual health aid especially if you suffer from joint pains and arthritis you can still give even when you can’t physically hold on.
Midwest P. –
I ordered this toy a few years ago. At first I found it pretty intimidating and was uncomfortable seeing so much of myself. But over time I’ve grown to love this little gadget.
The ridges feel pleasurable going in or out and are not too rough. They help the toy stay in place. It’s fairly easy to clean, but having a little brush or cloth helps to get between the grooves. Since I’ve had it for a few years, I do notice some slight discoloration near the top “handles”, which I think is from maybe the metal inside rusting a bit and coming out of that crease? So I make sure that those ends stay outside of my body.
This is a great warm up toy, especially if you are doing a session where you want to play with larger toys. Being spread open makes it super easy and hot to pour lube in or use a syringe. I have a large tentacle dildo that’s a similar color and found recently that if I use that with this toy, it looks like smaller tentacles are coming out of me.
Also a good toy for humiliation or exposure play, and just teasing in general. I haven’t tried any urethral play but this would definitely be a toy that could help with that.
Busty C. –
I wanted something I could use to spread things open and make it more visible for my lover. This worked really well, it was easy to use, and bendable/shape-able so that I could customize it to fit me perfectly. It opened everything up nicely and we really enjoyed it. Easy to clean and very discreet looking.